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The Gifts that Keep on Giving

Girl stacking a tower of colorful wooden blocks
 By Aoife Rose Magee
By Aoife Rose Magee

I was recently at an event where a child was handed a toy. They asked an adult, “What does it do?” This was a reasonable question when there are so many toys that only seem to do one thing. And when toys only do one thing, children tend to lose interest quickly. More than anything, children require novelty for skill building.  So consider offering open-ended toys: items and materials that have nearly unlimited potential for what they can do when the opportunity arrives. In contrast to closed-ended toys, these are more versatile and allow for child-led, creative, and imaginative experiences with no predetermined rules or outcomes.

Ideas for Open-Ended Play

Building and Construction: For children who enjoy building and construction, some great options include wooden blocks, Lego, magnetic tiles or marble runs. What makes these open-ended is that they are reusable and can be configured in different lots of different ways. Keep in mind that purchasing full sets is unnecessary – the building blocks are the essential element for open-ended play. Natural materials and recyclables also make for good building supplies. Cardboard boxes, toilet paper tubes, plastic lids or twigs, stones, shells or large leaves are all excellent choices for loose parts that can be assembled or crafted into something new. It’s helpful to have designated spaces for construction and deconstruction activities.

Imagination and Dramatic Play: Open-ended play isn’t limited to construction sites. It can also come from the imagination or dramatic potential an item has. Can it be used to tell a story? Play kitchens (indoors or outdoors) and play food, dollhouses, small animals or figures, tea sets, play silks, animals, dolls, wooden bowls, spoons, pots and pans, baskets, safe containers, or other materials that can be used to extend the play experience. Role-playing outfits, accessories, and household props can bring in additional elements for dramatic play. 

Art Materials and Sensory Supplies: Art supplies and sensory materials offer outlets for creative play, self-expression, and skill development. Playdough or clay and accessories, kinetic sand, paint, sensory bins, natural materials, ribbons, beads, buttons, craft sticks, yarn, paper, markers, and crayons. Keep in mind that children need encouragement to enjoy the process and explore colors, textures, and materials and not be concerned with a specific product. All they need is the space and ability to be messy and express themselves freely.

Games and Activities: Adults can also encourage games and open-ended activities that support movement and fun for children that require few if any materials. These might include Simon says, freeze dance or tag, bubble chase, animal walks, hopscotch, scavenger hunts, bean bag toss, obstacle courses, fort building with blankets and cushions, Red Light Green Light, hide and seek, or I Spy. Also, balls can be used in many ways and are often a hit with children. Feel free to draw from your own experiences and be sure to ask other adults for their ideas.

Through their open-ended play, children learn and develop many physical, emotional, and mental skills that they can build on throughout their lives. More than anything, open-ended play allows children long periods of unstructured time to get bored and shift into discovery mode, bringing forward their creativity and imagination.

Additional Resources

Check out this article by Katy Andewrson, “Loose Parts is the Real Brain Booster That Fancy Toys Pretend to Be” to learn more about the benefits of open-ended play.

This set of books on “Loose Parts” through Redleaf Press offers excellent information and beautiful photography. These can also be purchased separately at other booksellers.

For some examples of open-ended art, please read The Power of Open-Ended Art: Sparking Creativity in Preschoolers by Creative World School or The Best Kids’ Art Ideas for 2025 by Jean Van’t Hul.

 Aoife Rose Magee
Aoife Rose Magee

Fun Fall Crafts!

Two children joyfully throwing autumn leaves in the air outdoors

The leaves are falling, school is in full swing, and the weather is changing! This season brings about a lot of change, including keeping your kids indoors more with the rain and cold. Try one of these fun fall crafts to keep them – and you! – busy on your next rainy Sunday inside.

 PAPER PLATE WREATHS

Making paper plate wreaths is fun, simple, and a good way to get creative with your kids.

You will need:

  • Paper Plates

  • Different colors of tissue paper

  • Gluestick

Using child safe scissors, help your child cut out the center circle of a paper plate. Set the center circle to the side (you can use this to color on later!), and select a few different colors of tissue paper. Have your kids crumple up little pieces of the tissue paper, put some glue on the outer plate ring, and stick the tissue paper on it. Repeat all the way around the plate until your child has a beautiful, colorful wreath for Autumn!

Popsicle Stick Apple Cores

These are so cute, quick, and easy to make!

You will need:

  • Popsicle sticks

  • Green, red, and brown construction paper

  • Glue

  • A black pen or marker

Help your child cut green and/or red circles, then cut those in half with child safe scissors. Cut brown rectangles, and green ovals for leaves. Help your child glue three popsicle sticks side by side to create the core, then have them place the other pieces and glue to the popsicle sticks. Help them color on seeds and you’re finished!

Leaf Rubbings

Your curious nature lovers will enjoy this activity! Part art and part science, your kids will learn about nature while creating their own colorful leaf.

You will need:

  • Leaves! Different shapes and sizes make this activity even more fun.

  • Tracing paper or parchment paper

  • Crayons

  • A hard surface (a table or clipboard)

Have your child pick a leaf and place it on a solid surface. Cover the leave with the parchment or tracing paper, and slowly and steadily rub crayons over the top of the paper to reveal the outline and details of the leaf. Your child will be so excited to see their leaf brought to life on paper!

Once you’re all done with your crafts, display them somewhere for the whole family to see, your child will be so proud to see their work hung up. Kids love to make crafts that you can display in your home for them to see often!

Indoor Crafts For Rainy Days

Guest blog by Kalina Glover Moresi

The winter months can be challenging for restless toddlers. The weather has most families inside, which can make it difficult to keep your child entertained on those cold, rainy days.

If you’re feeling in a rut, here are some ideas to engage your child and have some crafty fun together!

Paper SnowflakesMaterials:

  • White paper – computer paper is the easiest

  • Scissors

Instructions:

  • Fold the paper in a simple way. Young kids can make beautiful snowflakes with a piece of paper folded into fourths.

  • With adult supervision cut the paper on the edges and in funny directions.

  • Open the paper up to see your fun and festive snowflake!

Paper Hearts

Materials:

  • Colored Paper

  • Markers or crayons if you want

  • Scissors

Instructions:

  • Fold paper in half

  • Draw half a heart shape on the piece of paper where the fold part of paper is.

  • Cut out on the line

  • Ask your children what they are thankful for and decorate your house with all the hearts.

Kool-Aid Soft Dough:

Materials:

  • 2 mixing bowls

  • 1 cup of salt

  • 1 cup of water

  • 2 cups of flour

  • 1/3 cup of oil

  • 1 package of Kool-Aid

Instructions:

  • Together with your child, measure and pour the flour and salt into the first bowl and mix.

  • Pour the oil, water and Kool-Aid into the second bowl and mix thoroughly.

  • Pour the liquid mixture into the flour mixture and mix and squish until you have soft dough.

This article is brought to you by Parenting Now! Parenting Educators and authors Amanda Bedortha, Claire Davis and Lynne Swartz, and consultant Jay Thompson. Parenting Now offers parenting groups and drop-in programs for families with children 0-8, and is passionate about happy, healthy families. For more information about Parenting Now! please visit their website or contact us at info@parentingnow.org.

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Winter Fun and Safety

Parent and two children laughing together inside an indoor blanket fort

Rain, rain and more rain, and yet you can still enjoy all of winter with your toddler. Maybe those early winter days of sweet indoor cuddling are gone as more chilly grey days arrive, but having a variety of indoor activities to keep your child busy and stimulated will make for a happy winter for all.  You don’t need fancy or expensive toys. There are lots of fun and safe playthings you can find with everyday objects in your home:

  • Create a simple scavenger hunt. Place three red objects around the room — a red apple, a red cup and red toy fire truck. Your child will love exploring and finding the objects and will learn about colors (shapes or sizes) too.

  • Use empty egg cartons and make long trains with them. Try decorating them.

  • Make a simple bread dough (or buy some pre-made) and create interesting shaped breads to bake. Then eat your work!

  • Make music! Tambourines or shakers work, as do wooden spoons and pots.

  • Make pretend snow.

  • Build an inside fort or tent to cozy up in.

  • Use toilet paper rolls to make binoculars 

Winter Safety

If your child is busy with fun activities, they are less likely to get into mischief. Of course, even if your child is occupied, it’s still critical to take general safety precautions like keeping knives, sharp objects, and medicine out of reach. There are extra winter safety issues to be aware of too:

  • Never put space heaters in a child’s room or where they are sleeping. Keep anything that can burn at least three feet away from space heaters.

  • Winter can mean more open flames in your home. Whether it’s a kerosene lamp, a fireplace, candles or other open flames, make sure they are well out of reach of children – remember toddlers are very resourceful when trying to get to something that sparkles or glows.

  • Don’t use electric blankets or heating pads with young children, and if you have an infant, use sleeping sacks or warm sleepers instead of blankets in sleeping areas.

Out and About

Even when it’s cold or rainy, it’s still a good idea to get out of the house with your little one. Sometimes just stepping out the front door is enough to change a mood. Between rainstorms, kick a ball back and forth, or encourage your toddler to throw the ball across the yard, retrieve it, and throw it again. If you really want to enjoy the outdoors with your child, Mt. Pisgah has fun, interactive stations where kids can learn about nature. Hedricks Park is a fun place to look at native flowers and trees, or just run around in the big, open grassy area. Your neighborhood park is a great place to look for worms in puddles, or watch the wind blow leaves.When you do head outdoors, be sure to: 

  • Dress your child in layers. A good rule of thumb is to dress babies and young children in one more layer than an adult is wearing.

  • Make sure places on your child’s body that can get particularly cold or damp are covered — hands and feet, head and ears.

  • Don’t overdress! Children can get sweaty and overheated, causing problems like skin irritations.

  • If you are outside for an extended period, check if layers need to come off or on.

  • If it’s frightfully cold, avoid taking your child, especially infants, outside as much as possible.

  • Do not put your child in a winter coat or snowsuit while buckled in their car seat. Instead, put an extra blanket over the straps if it is especially cold outside.

  • Strings or scarves can get caught and strangle small children, so choose other warm items to wear.

  • Use sunscreen for babies over six months of age; we can still get burned on cloudy or cold days.

  • Keep them hydrated; offer warm drinks and water often. We lose moisture through our breath.

Winter doesn’t have to be filled with weariness or worry! There are lots of exciting and safe things to do indoors and outdoors and around town, too. You might even miss winter when it’s over – especially if you remember to let yourself join your child in jumping in puddles.

This article is brought to you by Parenting Now! Parenting Educators and authors Amanda Bedortha, Claire Davis and Lynne Swartz, and consultant Jay Thompson. Parenting Now offers parenting groups and drop-in programs for families with children 0-8, and is passionate about happy, healthy families. For more information about Parenting Now, please visit their website or contact us at info@parentingnow.org.

Triple P – Positive Parenting Program

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If you live in Lane County, you can get Triple P Online for free by filling out the form on the Triple P page. A staff person from Parenting Now will send you an access code within 24 hours and you’ll be able to start using the program right away! For more information about the program and to sign up visit the Triple P page.

STEAM in the Kitchen

Cooking and baking alongside your toddler and young child results in so much more than just a tasty meal or snack! When we cook with our child, we provide opportunities for learning science, technology, engineering, art, and math (STEAM). STEAM is a way of looking at learning that explores many subjects within the same activity—and your kitchen is the perfect place to explore these ideas and have fun doing so! Cooking, by nature, is all about scientific reactions—the way cornstarch thickens soup, or yeast helps bread dough rise. But it can also be about making food art, or engineering the tallest sandwich tower! When you do a cooking project, ask your child to guess what they think might happen. Then observe how it turned out. Becoming a master of anything begins with curiosity, and cooking is all about experimenting with flavors, textures and colors. Measuring, pouring, stirring and watching food grow and change are all about math and science, but also spark creativity and artistry. And don’t we want learning to be fun?Here are some ideas for teaching STEAM using food:

Watermelon Volcano Experiment:

Just in time for summer, turn a watermelon rind  into an exploding volcano (after you save the red, ripe delicious insides for a snack, of course)! Supplies:

  • Small watermelon

  • Baking soda

  • Vinegar

  • Dish soap

Steps: Carve your watermelon like you would a pumpkin, cutting a small hole in the top (just big enough so that you can get your hand into it. Then, scoop out the watermelon insides so the watermelon is hollow—save your watermelon for snacks later! Then, pour ½ cup baking soda into the watermelon, followed by a few drops of dish soap. The fun really begins when you pour in the vinegar and your watermelon volcano “explodes”!

Ice Cream In A Bag:

Making your own ice cream is a great way to get the whole family moving and shaking—and cool off during hot summer days. Supplies:

  • 1 tablespoon sugar

  • ½ cup Half & Half

  • ¼ teaspoon Vanilla Extract

  • ½ cup table salt

  • 4 cups of ice cubes

  • Small, sealable sandwich bags

  • Gallon-sized freezer bags

  • Oven mitts

Steps: In a small sealable bag, add 1 tablespoon of sugar, ½ cup of Half & Half, and ¼ teaspoon Vanilla Extract. Set aside.In a gallon size sealable bag, add 4 cups of ice cubes and ½ cup of salt. While still sealed shut, place your small bag of sugar and milk into the large bag of salt and ice. Seal the bag.Wearing oven mitts, shake the bags for 5 minutes. Then, the ice cream is ready to eat!

Fruit Rainbow:

Fruits and vegetables are full of beautiful colors—and taste good too! Have a fun, and yummy time with your kiddos making a fruit rainbow. Supplies:

  • Strawberries (Red)

  • Oranges or golden raspberries (Orange)

  • Pineapple (Yellow)

  • Green grapes (Green)

  • Blueberries (Blue)

  • Purple grapes (Indigo and Violet)

  • Plain yogurt

Prepare your fruit by washing it and cutting the strawberries, oranges, pineapple, and grapes into ¼ size bites. Assemble your rainbow by following the sequencing of rainbow colors “ROYGBIV”:  red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet. At the ends of your rainbow, add a few dollops of plain yogurt for clouds. Enjoy!

Fun in the kitchen

“Some people like to paint pictures, or do gardening, or build a boat in the basement. Other people get a tremendous pleasure out of the kitchen, because cooking is just as creative and imaginative an activity as drawing, or wood carving, or music.” — Julia Child

There are so many ways to look at cooking through a STEAM lens. And whether your child is a toddler or a tween, there are lots of age-appropriate activities for using STEAM in the kitchen. Enjoying time doing a STEAM learning activity with your child builds lifelong memories and sparks their passion for learning through fun and creativity.

This article is brought to you by Parenting Now Parenting Educators and authors Amanda Bedortha, Claire Davis and Lynne Swartz, and consultant Jay Thompson. Parenting Now offers parenting groups and drop-in programs for families with children 0-8, and is passionate about happy, healthy families. For more information about Parenting Now, please visit their website or contact us at info@parentingnow.org.

Triple P – Positive Parenting Program

Are you interested in receiving more parenting advice? Triple P Online – Positive Parenting Program could be for you! This online parenting program allows you to take a parenting class in the comfort of your own home!

If you live in Lane County, you can get Triple P Online for free by filling out the form on the Triple P page. A staff person from Parenting Now will send you an access code within 24 hours and you’ll be able to start using the program right away! For more information about the program and to sign up visit the Triple P page.